A Contract for Dominants

There are plenty of D/s contracts for bottoms (submissive persons, slaves). Many silly, no small number downright wrongheaded.

Thisgirl speculated about a contract for tops (dominants, masters, mistresses). A few random extracts:

  • I want to help develop and nuture your submission and help you understand this side of yourself.
  • I will torture your body and push it to your limits but not overstep your boundaries.
  • I will keep the play interesting and not let it get boring or stale.
  • If Doms had contracts…

    In her commentary on the contract Lenora of Enchanted Palms wrote:

    So for the submissive there has to be some “risk” in signing the contract, some area or factor(s) that leave at least a hint of uncomfortableness. Without that element the contract feels like a cubic zirconium engagement ring: important perhaps as a symbol but of extremely limited value.

    I’m still rolling that around in my mind. At the very least there probably will be the discomfort of doubt: wondering if it can be lived up to.

    It’s Not Like Signing Up For A Gym Membership

    I have any number of mutually incompatible feelings about BDSM contracts. I will own that if nothing else they can be hot and sexy.

    If the D/s relationship needs to be bound, defined, clarified by prose – not that a clever person couldn’t do it in verse – formal agreements from both sides seems a reasonable approach.

    1 comment to A Contract for Dominants

    • mike

      if you sign any contract it should be legal.i think the trick is to not use the word slave.if you truly want to bound by a dominate woman sign contracts give her unlimited power of attorney sign a model release and let her take pics and videos.if the contract csnt hold up she still controls your finances and can blackmail you with the pics and videos,this is what im doing for my wife

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