I wish I’d caught this thread that Gracie started on Sex Kitten earlier:
I agree that the very basis of a domme being paid for her services makes her, in part, cater to the submissive. If baby ain’t happy, she makes no money. In this sense, to domme is topped from the bottom ~ in many cases. There are many, too many in my opinion, folks which work bdsm this way. Of course, ‘real’ folks aren’t exempt from this. I know many people in real life loving relationships who acquiese to the demands of a lover who is on the bottom (like any other lover, it’s about aim to please at times ~ and being ‘into bdsm’ does not mean you automatically have your head wrapped right about your relationship). But does this mean that a pro domme automatically offers a cheaters version of the experience?