The always delightful Angela St. Lawrence:
Because I do rather like being being behind the wheel in boy-girl games in my real life. It’s just in real life the game is one of sublime subtlety rather than the grab-you-by-the-balls immediacy so necessary to fantasy phone. Talk is cheap and it seems to me that a true Goddess wouldn’t need to brag about her prowess; she already knows it and smart men (the only men worth seducing) will know it too. Which means that I don’t advertise my life, I advertise my talents. TWO ENTIRELY DIFFERENT THINGS. But, if you get to know me well enough, you just might get to hear some inside dope.
The other thing is that I happen to be quite good at fantasy. I LIKE intricate role plays in which I am given a free hand so that I can work my magic, developing a story line around a caller’s particular kink. For example, I am very good at creating shemale fantasies. (I could actually create an entirely new persona as a TS, so that I would more frequently get those types of calls. And, honestly, I’ve thought about it–although I haven’t done so yet.)
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Hmm. One thing I never understood about sex work, especially of the not-real-live-sex-variety such as phone sex work, is, frankly, that fantasy is cheap. Are that many men simply that bad at fantasizing on their own that every single one seems to need to resort to paying for it? Not that doing so is necessarily bad or wrong, just something I’ve never found worthwhile enough to actually do.
Well, yes, maymay, there are that many men simply “that bad” at fantasizing. Google femdom phone sex or BDSM phone sex or any other mish-mash or flavor on the same theme, and you will see what I mean.
Of course you don’t “find it worthwhile enough to actually do,” because you, me and most other women are quite capable and comfortable creating our own fantasies. Which, BTW, is why men have a hard time making it as providers in the Phone Sex Industry: Women rarely call phone sex lines.
Some callers are vanilla in their everyday, will never act on their BDSM desires, and just want a fantasy to which to masturbate. Others occasionally sneak off for a round of Pro Domme play and use phone sex as a kinda panacea until the next time.
Then there is a group of men who may or may not practice any BDSM in their everyday lives, but their fantasies go way beyond what they can get or particularly want to really happen. This would include impractical and/or beyond-the-pale-dirty stuff such as castration, domination by a relative, coprophilia, etc.
So, here I am, providing and outlet, but always reminding my callers that — just like them — I’m your typical, everyday person who likes kinky fantasies.
Does that kinda-sorta make sense?