Domination is Hard Work

If you’ve seen the documentary Fetishes then you’ve seen Mistress Raven. Here’s an excerpt from an interview with her:

“Being dominant is a very hard job,” Raven explained. “You’re creating the scenario. You’re writing the entire script. You’re doing all the labor. You know, submissives, they have it easy. They’re not so stupid. They’re very smart. Who’s doing all the work? The mistress is supposedly in charge. But she’s doing the lighting, the music. She’s doing all the physical tying up and whatever the punishment is. She’s wearing the high heels and the corset, while he’s sitting there nice and cozy and comfy and just responding. So who’s really serving whom?”

(Funny how outsiders obsess with that last little bit.)

The whole interview: A Chat with Mistress Raven of Pandora’s Box

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April 4, 2007 | Filed Under ProDommes 

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3 Responses to “Domination is Hard Work”

  1. Alexis on April 5th, 2007 6:09 pm

    What a pile of self-pitying crap. Po’ widdle dommie has to work so hard, aw, so sad, wah, wah!

    Write the entire script? Wow, what a wonder the entire script doesn’t win an Oscar. Such a hard script to write. I bet her fingers bleed when she’s done. Doing all the work? Really? ALL? Gosh. My heavens. Such work. Swinging arms and chaining people up and having them lick you to orgasm. Wow, that’s labor. That’s a job!

    SO much harder than slinging coffee at a truckstop. And those heels. And those corsets. Ah, if only for the pleasant comfort of a ball gag and a butt plug!

    You know what? Those soldiers at Abu Ghraib had it SO hard. They had to invent the ENTIRE plan for torture. They had to come up with ALL the punishments. Darn, those Arab prisoners, they sure were SMART to get themselves beaten.

    Will someone, please, get a brain?

  2. Mrblackmagic on April 6th, 2007 1:03 am

    I live in tokyo and I am interested in lifestyle LFA.
    Personally Im not so much interested in corsets or high heels or any of that. I would prefer my owner in sweat pants and a tshirt caging me, however I agree for the most part that the female controling the man usually is doing alot of the work.
    I think this is actually because alot of “submissive men” are simply Manipulating situations to their benefit.

  3. maymay on April 7th, 2007 12:39 am

    Well, duh!

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