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As Slavegirl Sissy points out often the quotidian interferes with a power exchange dynamic.
But submission is not always like a porn movie. Sometimes its hard, difficult, frustrating (in the bad sense). Sometimes there are arguments, misunderstandings. Sometimes real life just gets in the way.
I find myself slightly suspicious when I see blog/forum entries that’s basically describe a 24/7 porn movie BDSM lifestyle where everyone seems to be in everyone else’s pants all the time. No one seems to have job or child responsibilities, or ever seems get tired, ill, or just not in the mood.
Slavegirl Sissy
Devling into Deviance’s motto is “Ponderings on kink and female domination.”
From the blog’s about page:
… I am somewhat new to female domination, but have been interested in it for a few years. This is my chosen forum for exploring my ideas as they come along. Sometimes this will involve building on them or modifying them. I do not offer a definitive guide, but rather, perhaps, a woman with whom others will be able to relate. I don’t want to be put on a pedestal, and I would never accept money for what I do. I am a real woman, complete with imperfections and strong emotions. I am a sadist and a masochist. I like to tie others up and be tied up. However, when it comes to D/s, I prefer the dominant role. …
Devling into Deviance
A fine and thoughtful blog.
This is the lates iteration of my periodic roundup of some of the F/m images that I’ve scattered around the web.
F/mish fashion ads:
Female Led Images
More complete fashion editorials:
More:
Female Domination
And Dominatrix Drawings and Paintings.
Femdom Cave doesn’t have the most useful name in Femdom but so many domain names have been bought and hoarded by speculators you have to work with what is available.
Femdom Cave is a site filled with F/m eBooks. The cost seems modest and there are free stories as well. The site looks very clean and professional.
What makes Femdom Cave here is the site has a blog that you can follow to learn about their latest Femdom eBooks.
If it sounds appealing visit: Femdom Cave’s Blog.
“Slave” implies an inequality from the get go.
Here’s how my FLR works:
“So we have edged back toward a rather elegant, understated, world in which I am the servant/lover of the very elegant lady of the house. Hannah is beautiful, nicely demanding and able to give an order without anyone, except me, knowing she has. Part of my duties is to be her maid, taking care of her clothes, making her bed; part is being her servant in the sense of serving her wine or a bit of cheese, doing laundry, wielding the vacuum; part is being her ardent, but always obedient, lover. We work these roles out as we go along.
The one certainty being that I accept and welcome Hannah’s discipline and acknowledge that I have no right to discipline or even talk back to her.” two alphas
Not for everyone, works for us.
Fat and Tiny blogs about small penis humiliation and humiliating experiences of the past in general. He’s in a relationship with a distant Mistress. Recently she rewarded him:
As a reward for being good, she recently sent me a couple of recent photos. All I can say is….wow. She’s amazing. I don’t know how I got so lucky. She had to look at my fat ass in session so many times, and I got to look at her perfect body.
Before we met the first time, I was blown away by photos she had on her old website. Then when it came time for our first ever session, she was even more beautiful in person. These days photos will have to do, and I am so lucky to have them.
Fat and Tiny
From Ms Slide’s About page.
She is rumoured to be anything from zero to several million years old, though carbon-dating suggests that she’s probably about thirty. Having loitered around the edges of the fetish scene in London since the late ‘nineties, Ms Slide can often be seen destroying hapless minions at fetish clubs, holding regular private parties and appointments, and doing nasty things to nice people on naughty websites. She’s from the same part of the world that spawned the marvellous Derren Brown, which could explain her love of the hypnotic arts and one-time goatee beard.
As well as being “Best of Forum” Magazine’s agony aunt, Ms Slide has also been made House Mistress for “Forum” and “Desire Presents BDSM” and regularly contributes to all three, as well as a number of other publications. She also helps out at several club nights, especially Club Pedestal where she helps train house slaves and becomes predictably drunk and obnoxious throughout the course of the evening. Ms Slide will happily write in exchange for coins. If you have work for her, do feel free to get in touch.
Ms Slide is a Dominatrix. A Dominatrix is not a prostitute. I will say this again, for those who don’t quite understand, or who have ever inadvertently read The News Of The World: A DOMINATRIX IS NOT A PROSTITUTE. Much as prozzies do an admirable job, as does anyone who works in a profession that involves taking orders from someone else (be they a street-sweeper, soldier, or second-in-command at Microsoft) a Dominatrix doesn’t get fucked in exchange for cash, and is subordinate to nobody. Ms Slide will not be told what to do. She is perfectly aware that her stubbornness is a character defect, but it works very well for her chosen career, so she’s sodding well sticking with it.
Latest From Ms Slide’s Bitch Blog
OctopusHeart calls himself entertaingly enough a uxorious house husband.
While not as dense and tangled as, say, Judith Butler the blog certainly has the flavor of postmodern ( – or maybe even postpomo – ) academicism. A description, not a judgement.
Introducing the idea of a power exchange to his wife:
When I first approached my wife with the idea of having a female led relationship*, I was seeking to (re)negotiate our love symbols not only in order to get more adequate love symbols to express myself (this is my interior balance between self and partner) but also so that we might meet and integrate with each other better and more intimately (which is my perspective on our exterior balance between self and partner). Well, my wife was rather skeptical about my idea. She naturally wanted adequate love symbols for her (her interior balance between herself and her partner) but she also wanted to get wherever our relationship was going in an organic and non-artificially structured way (her perspective on our exterior balance between herself and her partner).
Agreement & Ambiguity: Self/Other Balance
Cuckoldry is not my fetish. It is as alien as anything pertaining to sex can be. But I know that for many men it is source of rich and profound fantasies. For a rare few it is a reality of humiliating delight.
Most cuckolding on the web is trash: fake blogs and bad porn. But a few women who cuckold their very willing husbands have the talents for sharing their experiences.
Jinxy is one of the good ones. She has a blog, a forum and a couple of other cuckoldry sites. I’m going to point you to the forum, which will lead you to all the rest.
One the forum you can read the inevitable “feminized by wife and lover” and “sexless cuckold.” Jinxy’s husband participates as well.
Just Jinxy Forum
Strongnsubmissive sums it up all too well:
I’ve said this a thousand times – The only thing worse than being sexually different is being ALONE and sexually different. Inside i was screaming for companionship and an ear that could understand the language that i was speaking. With external relationships far behind me and trips to local munches a thing of the past, (they just caused too much friction with Bella) i yearned for someone who could understand me. Someone who could answer me when i’d ask: “Am i sexually flawed because i’m turned on by bondage, obedience and control?”
Of Mistresses Past…
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