Male Chastity Devices : Purpose & Logic

Discarded portion of something I was writing for my personal D/s site:

When I realized that for Alexandra to take power over my penis in the most fundamental way might be something that I actually need it was inevitable that I’d look across the web to see what physical restraints were available.

(For those of you who will eventually find this entry out of context with the other notes about exploring orgasm denial with my beloved:

I could deny myself as an act of will. The danger is that I can easily see myself become so unsexualized that I no longer care if I have an orgasm. To psychically neuter me is not the goal. Physical restraint is - among other things - a feedback mechanism for insuring that enforced chastity isn’t asexual: that my desire remains, indeed that my libido is heightened.

This isn’t a means to turn me into a eunuch. If your goals in exploring male denial are demasculinization or you have some sort of purist’s agenda then you are on the wrong web page.)

Alexandra will tell you I’m a real BDSM sexual technology perv. Happily she humors me and also enjoys some of my discoveries. My “ouch” or look of humility matching her own pleasure.

You can read my various Essays on Male Chastity

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One Response to “Male Chastity Devices : Purpose & Logic”

  1. Robbie /AKA Felicia on May 24th, 2008 5:04 am

    I have tried to be and dressed as . A sissy slve girl. I love Female Domination. And wished I could be around that life style. But Buffalo NewYork. Is an empty closet. I just want to be a sissy slave maid. Help what can I do. I just want to belong .I LOVE serveing women. I would give my stupid nasty balls to be used as door knockers in a minute.Help me please I would do aything

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