A husband writes of introducing his wife to loving female authority and male chastity:
Interesting now it has been a good few days now since that conversation, already I feel my self slipping away from submissiveness , the cage really does help one get into and stay in subspace. It makes one (well me) feel like doing all these things, alas once I have access once again to my favorite toy many of these feelings go out the window.
It does work as advertised, it truly does but it also takes a lot of perseverance. It may not be the perfect answer for everyone but I can honestly say it seems to help us along. I wonder if just simply wearing it, Sarah recognizes I am doing something just for her, I know it satisfies some part of me, but I think I am past the kink aspect. Initially sure it was a kink that turned me on, and I admit for god knows what reason it still does turn me on, the idea of being unable to masturbate, at a woman’s mercy still excites me, but that is no longer my real driving force. The driving force is to make Sarah happy, and I guess my real motivation is to increase our intimacy, by whatever form it takes.
I also find that I am not so enthusiastic about giving Sarah hour long massages, I am not sure if this is a reaction from me because I WANT her to ask me to cage up again or not. Some would say that withdrawal of service is toping from the bottom. Perhaps it is, but I just don’t feel the same kind of servitude as I did before.
I do worry that this blog focuses too much on caging and not enough on a female lead marriage, but Sarah is leading the way. I am still encouraging this behavior however Sarah does ask me to make decisions, it is not entirely fair to ask her to have the burden of all decisions, but Sarah does make the decisions she wants to. …
I am in 100% agreement with you. I have a great husband and he has been even better; hard to imagine he could be.
Domestic around the house DONE, massage my feet DONE, rub my shoulders DONE.
The sex part has been out of this world. His desire, his motivation to pleasure me has grown to new hights. I can say I’m spoiled.
I tease him, oh I tease him so bad and he tells me it’s a pain/pleasure feeling with his penis trying to burst out, trying to expand. I touch him all around and tug on him while he attending to me and his moans of pain/pleasure amplify.
After I have reached my point of satisfaction a time or three I have him spoon with me. I can feel his cb lock up toy nuzzled in my rear while I drift off to sleep……..