Orgasm denial seems to excite men more than women – even in the context of female dominant relationships.
There are probably many, many reasons for this disparity of emotion. Here are a few possibilities:
- Conflict, guilt about their masculinity.
- Buried gender dysphoria.
- Guilt in being a lazy spouse.
- Recapture the erotic energy felt during the frustrations of adolescence.
- Feeling of virility from needing to be controlled.
- Desire to feel owned.
- Masochistic need for suffering.
- Submissive desire to please a woman who likes male orgasm denial.
Do any of them apply to you? To someone you know?
Can you suggest other emotional forces driving men to crave being kept chaste?
I have a strong desire to be placed in chastity by a dominant woman who would control my ejaculations for months on time making me beg her for release until she milks my semen not allowing me any sexual pleasure or gratification.
Be careful what you wish for. I am a sub/servant to a DOMME WIFE. I wear a CB2000 on a 24/7 basis. The longest without release was 90 day punishment. Lots of begging and crying with spankings. Fantasy is one thing, but reality is another. Good luck in your search.
My wife and I recently started experimenting with my chastity in a CB3000. She caught me emailing pictures of my penis to a woman I met on another website. At the time, I hadn’t thought of my actions as cheating, now I understand why they are. Now I no longer can masturbate without her permission, even if I am not in my CB3000. For me it is very freeing and I feel much more connected and close to her. I also find I enjoy masturbating more, when I do, because I don’t hide when I do it and I take my time and enjoy it.
I am trying to understand what it is that differentiates men who not only like female domination but actually crave it, from men who have no interest in it. Does anyone have a clue? Does it have to do with society being in the process of becoming increasingly matriarchal?Is it some deep colective memory from an early period/
I woulkd alsolike tohear from females who actually enjoy Being the dominant in their relationship, not because they want to make their husband or boy friend happy, bit because they are actually stimulated( physcially, emotionally spiritually, etc,)when being dominant I am not interested in porn.
This is a serious research project .