To make it work you need to develop a plan, as I said, I communicated with many others and all but one agreed that this is something that should become a 24/7 part of the relationship. 24/7 is the foundation, it is what changes men for the positive because they shouldn’t have the opportunity to control their sexual release and this is one of the areas that the lady, mistress, keyholder or whatever you prefer to be recognized as must have absolute control of. Although the lady remains in control it is very important to remember that you and he are still a couple in a relationship, he is still the man and that shouldn’t be forgotten, your relationship only changes once you close the bedroom door. Life goes on as it always had, employment, financial, family issues and decisions; your dominance should not interfere in other areas though you will find that he on his own may react differently, often positively, as his feelings and emotions change.
Whether this is something that he initiated, the two of you mutually agreed upon or something that you requested from him – one thing is a necessity, there needs to be something for him to gain. He is giving up something that is a very important part of the males life, his sexual abilities – and for that you need to realize that he too should be rewarded, as well as you will, but obviously in a much different way. You know the things that he likes, that arouse him, put a smile on his face. Often times we find that there are things that really do not interest us that do him and considering the sacrifice that he is making you too can make sacrifices, like life, chastity needs mutual rewards and often you will find those things that you reward him with will lead to an increase in his being aroused and enhancing his over all demeanor. It could be massages or trying sexual things that he likes but you never desired to try. Changes in your appearance, how you dress, the make-up you apply, shortening your dress and for most men a lady wearing high heels heightens their happiness and arousal. He is making a permanent change in his lifestyle and you too may need to make some permanent adjustments so that he feels things are fair.
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I couldn’t agree with you more. Very well stated. I copied and pasted your managing 27/7 and also made a hard copy to read a time or two so it sinks in.
When we stated this program in our home we started from a very good point. I was coming from a place of being so spoiled already and this lifted me to an even higher level.
Love to chat about it: Jen.spritz@Yahoo.com
Love to find other women that have their husband or boyfriend incaged or locked up and learn new way, new thinking, new ideas.
My husband, 33 yr old pretty big athletic guy is safe and secure locked up in his cb6000.
I have read several comments and sites on ‘training him’.. That is training him to make me the undisputed center of his sexual world.
So far he has done exactly as I have instructed and he’s realizing more and more every day that I now ‘totally control’ his sex and his orgasm.
I enjoy him telling me how he swells and can’t reach erection, I enjoy hearing him late at night in the wee hours of the morning while his body naturally trys to harden and his penis meets totaly resistance.
I had a date Thursday and when I came home I told him all about it, all the sexy details. I can only imagine how he churned and turned inside.
I’m very new at this world so I would love to chat with someone of experience to guide me and support my thinking.
Jen.spritz@Yahoo.com
Jen – I love what you do to your husband, up until cheating on him. You’re sending your marriage on a disasterous path. Chastity and controlling of the husband is great, BUT cheating is self-destructive.
I disagree, I have been chaste for over a 4 months now in the cb3000 and my wife has had several dates, she tells me every detail which sends my cock wild as it gets stabbed by the ‘points of intrigue’ fitted to my cage. It just makes me want her even more, and when I am allowed to masturbate on my own in the garage, my only thoughts are for my beautiful wife.