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Tell Your Girlfriends!
A wife offers advice on enhancing and maintaining male orgasm denial within a happy marriage:
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I found is to tell one or two of your girlfriends about your husband’s situation. Encourage them to flirt with him or even to grab him on the genitals when they are around (don’t worry, he can’t do anything about it
). I even let my best friend change Patrick’s diapers whenever she is at our house (he tried to refuse at first, but quickly agreed when I threatened to deny him for an extra 6 months!) This is guaranteed to embarrass hubby and to let him really understand that there is no chance of ever changing his situation. I find this does absolutely nothing for me but reinforce to him the fact that I am in control, as previously said this is most important, his failure to comply will have consequences he does not desire. …
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The most important step is always the first one, this is where he is made to understand that you control his sexual pleasure from this point forward, the initial enforcement of chastity should be at least three months of continuous wear without relief. That three month period does seem a bit harsh but it is paramount to your success because it allows his body and mind to adjust to the lack of masturbation and sexual pleasure as desired. Enforcing the first three month period will allow him to get in to the proper frame of mind and make him understand your desire and your commitment and your determination to his being chaste; it will also give you the chance to develop the strength to say “no”. He should be made aware of the time frame immediately after his being secured in his device, this allows for a clear understanding of the initial commitment of time. Also be sure to make him aware that asking (or begging) for relief will only earn him additional time in lockup - you really don’t EVER want to give in on this point because, trust me, he will annoy you forever if he thinks there is a chance of early relief! …
Chastity for a Long Happy and Sexy Marriage
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Since the age of 17 I have been trained by my sister to be inadequate. It started with speed masturbation until I could only last 20 seconds. Once mastered, I was trained to totally relax all my muscles prior to orgasm. This resulted in dribbling instead of sqirting and hardly any feeling of orgasm. I was then trained to combine the two. I am now 21 years old, can last 30 seconds maximum and dribble with little orgasm - it feels like peeing. Although not strictly orgasm denial I can no longer orgasm. I’m not naturally hairy but I have to keep my body hair under control. I am allowed a small cap of pubic hair above my penis, balls always bald, hairless armpits, navel and chest, and trim my arm and leg hair. My legs are only allowed hair on the shins and this is bleached blonde, same as my arm hair. At university, I had to wear sleeveless t-shirts and take a shower when girls were around, walking around with just a towel wrapped around my waist and kept very low to demonstrate my lack of hair.
I was trained by my mother, having to rub her feet when she came home from work, I also had to brush her hair, and it went from there…
This post is obviously a male getting off pretending to be exactly the type of female he fantasizes his wife were.
Changing his diaper? In what world do you think a domme’s friend would want to change a sub’s diaper? You couldn’t pay most women to do that.
Like CHG, my mother has complete control over me. I am now an adult and she has even more control. If i behave, I may be allowed a release, but they are rare. What isn’t rare are the strappings which can take place as often as four or five times a week depending on what I have done i would like to hear more from CHG on this.