What do you think is stopping you from finding the right top (sadist, dominant) or bottom (masochist, submissive person)?
Possibile Causes
You:
- Your geographical location
- Your shyness
- Your inexperience
Them:
- Their selfishness
- Their inarticulateness
- Their bad manners
Both:
- Busy
- Nerves
- Tiredness
- Laziness
- Physical appearance
- Family
- Friends
Or one of the myriad possibilities not listed above?

I think its my geographical location…
am in Nigeria,west Africa!!!
Im seeking a Mistress in Africa, Kenya in particular, can anyone let me know how to go about it?
Please. Dying to serve
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