Does your religion, e.g.:
- Church you belong to
- Theology or doctrine
- Personal faith
- Supernatural belief system?
Does it affect your atypical, BDSM sexuality?
- Is worshipping your Mistress (top) a replacement for worshipping god?
- Does it make it harder for you to act on your kinky needs?
- Or are you part of a kink friendly congregation?
If religion is something only in your past:
- Did it inhibit the flowering of your submissive or dominant desires?
- Have you transferred religious guilt into erotic humiliation?
- Or is its legacy on your fetish life a positive thing?
Christian, Hindu, Buddhist, Neo-pagan, whatever …
I’ve had a personnal relationship with the Lord since my youth. I experienced obsticals in my life right after I accepted Christ as my Savior that have influence my sexual growth. Some 30 plus years later I no longer attend church, but I still have my faith which will be life long. I used prayer and meditation to find the Mistress I see now. I look for signs in my relationships that I deem to be from the Lord. Their have been a few along the way that I used to guide my path. I view worshipping my Mistress as practice for worshipping my Savior. My Mistress can’t replace Him. Though the Bible is imspired it was also written by man for man and consequently the mores of the time have influenced the message. Its basic message of “Love One Another” is still true. It is up to us to determine how much of that message has been distorted. I’m new to the activity only about 2 years, married 29 years and my wife knows all about Mistress and has even met her. She even supports the relationship. I’d have it no other way.
In my anything-but-humble opinion, worshipping anything like one might do for a god is pretty silly, Mistresses and Masters included. That being said, there is erotic potential in the notion of “the almighty.” When I was a boy in religious day school, my fellow classmates would often tell me that it was unhealthy not to have a fear of god, as they did. I never could see why they were afraid of god, but I loved the idea of being afraid of something that could supposedly do what a god could do: namely anything.
It’s sexy for me to imagine myself so helpless and my top so powerful as to be completely at their whim. I often wonder if religion wasn’t conceptualized by submissives like myself who enjoyed such fantasies.
I consider myself to be a Buddhist Mystic who is and has been for some time into the feminine side of the divine. All I can say is this gives me pleasant dreams w/o drugs, and I pursue femdom guiltlessly. In time I may change as I have changed in the past. I wish us all the best in our quest!