Why do masochistic and submissive men (and women) write more about their experiences and feelings that dominant women and men and sadists?
While this doesn’t seem to be quite the web truism that it once was, clearly more bottoms blog and post on forums than to tops. Is there some hidden psychological factor at work?
Originally posted 2007-06-21 17:56:46.
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That’s a good question. I’ve noticed this, too.
I could give you my thoughts on this, but that would require making myself vulnerable. Lemme see if I can muster the time and energy to assemble something worthy of your site Richard.
Thanks for always making us think.
MWK
I don’t know what other people’s experiences are like, but I find that of the BDSM people I meet in person, by far the highest percentage tend to be bottoms or switches. I suppose one possible reason more bottoms blog than tops is that there may proportionally be fewer tops to blog.