Here are attributes you might consider when seeking someone for BDSM. The bias is toward an ongoing or serious relationship.
Rate them on a scale of 1 to 10, by percentage, not at all important, somewhat important, very important or some or scale of importance:
In a Domme / Top:
- Physical Beauty
- Intelligence
- Honesty
- Confidence
- Arrogance
- Empathy
- Sadism
- Compatible Fetishes
- Verbal Ability
- Physical Health
- Mental Health
- Income Level
In a Submissive / Bottom:
- Handsome
- Smart
- Integrity
- Confidence
- Humility
- Understanding
- Pain Threshold
- Shares My Kinks
- Open Communicator
- Physical Health
- Mental Health
- Hard Worker
Be honest!