Do you trust the fetish and kink weblogs that you read?
On forums and mailing lists even before there were weblogs there were always mean (and women if not men pretending to be women) who shared stories of how they and others engaged in D/s and S&M.
Stories that were a tissue of lies. Unable to actually explore their fetishes or live their erotic hungers they lived them out on the web. Though written by many people their tone and plot lines were sadly consistent. Sexual frustration can narrow the mind.
Many people now read BDSM and loving female authority weblogs as sources of advice and inspiration. And the lives they are hoping to emulate are often as real as that of Winnie the Pooh.
Do you think they are generally?
- Completely authentic
- Spiced up a bit
- Questionable
- Definitely dubious
- Completely fabricated
What do you think are the telltale signs of a bogus BDSM weblog?
Does it really matter of the blog is real? Seriously, if you’re looking for genuine adivce from folks who are anonymous on blogs that are trivial to create…puhleez.
Even the ones that are obviously fake, though, are still fascinating.
Reality is always sexier than fiction.
I, for one, am a total apparition.
The only thing sadder than a fake narrow-minded weblog is a real narrow-minded weblog, and there are more of those weeds sprouting every day.
It’s more the amount of fake Dommes on the net since Femdom got “cool” that annoys me.
I read a lot of blogs, some obviously fictional purely for entertainment. What does worry me though are those who give advice or suggest certain behaviors with no clue as to what they are talking about, having no real BDSM/Femdom experience – for newbie subs to read and emulate.
I don’t think my blog is sexy enough to be considered fake. And it would take almost as much energy making up all that shit as it does living through it. Hmm, guess I know what hobby to take up if my relationship ends
Now I think that my blog is fake
I think people can eventually tell if our posts are real or not.
Like on my blog:
Ask a TD Mistress
http://www.orgasmdenial.com/blogs/
90% of my posts are real, 10% from made up questions because I ran out.
Of my 90%, 70% is based on my real life experience. The other 30% I end up researching the answers to the best of my ability. Which still makes it valid.. at least I hope it does.