A sadist likes to hurt someone. A masochist likes to be hurt.
A dominant likes to take control. A submissive person likes to be controlled.
You can’t mix them. The two BDSM orientations are as immiscible as oil and water.
Kink folklore believed only by the unwise and ignorant.
The human mind and heart is capable of combining all sorts of seemingly irreconcilable opposites.
And a switch is a person who enjoys both sides of power exchange and sadomasochistic play.
Or do you think everyone must be only one or the other: top or bottom. Anyone claiming to be a switch is either misguided or a fake?
If you are a switch have you ever been derided by some self-appointed source of the truth? Been told that your sexuality doesn’t exist?
Originally posted 2007-09-29 07:00:58.
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keep posting more!
as long as it isn’t one of those “bait and switch” ploys. ha!
as a sub/slave by nature, i would never want to be the Dominant. it would be phony of me to even try. but i do not question nor doubt that there are others who can live both roles for real without pretending . . . every person is different.