Many people don’t think of having an orgasm a necessary part of successful BDSM play. The erotic psychodrama of a scene is sufficient unto itself. Yet there are those for whom orgasm signals the end of the scenario, is the goal of a session.
How about you?
- An orgasm must be part of a scene
- An orgasm should be part of a scene
- Maybe, maybe not: I take it as it goes
- Orgasms are rarely part of BDSM for me
- I never orgasm during BDSM play
If never: does that make you feel bad?
I wonder if there would be a significantly meaningful difference in feelings between tops and bottoms.