The bottom’s collar is often one of the most sentimentalized physical symbols in a BDSM relationship. The collar reflects both perception of the individual dynamic between the top and bottom and their aesthetics.
Is there a particular kind of collar that you wear or wish you did?
- Simple Leather Collar
- Fancy Decorative Collar
- Pet Collar with Spikes or the like
- Metal Band that Circles your Neck
- Choke Collar
Is it important to you whether the collar is locked or not?
Do you make the collar visible as a token of interest in engaging in play?
Is there a ritual associated with donning the collar?
Who controls the collar: the top or the bottom?
Who selected your collar: the top or the bottom?
How does the collar make you feel?
- Slavish
- Owned
- Like a Pet
- Powerless
- Submissive
- Happy
[...] follow up of sorts to the prior suggested topic of the psychology and aesthetics of slave collars within BDSM [...]
[...] Earlier the topic of collars was suggested. But that was the neck collar. [...]