What if anything would you change about your sexuality – if you could – in a BDSM context?
More or less:
- Masochistic / Sadistic
- Submissive / Dominant
- Inhibited / Extroverted
- Desire / Patience
- Chaste / Horny
Not the best list I’ll admit. But there have probably been times when you’ve said to yourself I were I were more …
I think I would tone down my sadism slightly – just enough to make myself less dangerous to my partner.
Other than that, I would mainly make myself more confident and a bit less easily cowed or rendered insecure.
Tone down your sadism? How cruel