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Twitter: Fetish, Vanilla, Queer

polyfetishist — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 14:07:02 +0000

My tweets are segregated into (as of today) three accounts by theme:

Twitter: Fetish, Vanilla, Queer
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Cuckoldress’ Search

polyfetishist — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 08:53:26 +0000

Vanessa Chaland the writer of Cuckold Letters writes about the frustrations of looking for men online:

And then the lies, the flakes, the no-shows. Those that don’t believe me so cancel, or those that are just curious, they want to see if I am real. And when they do, they freak, they try to act tough and macho and slick. But I can see in their eyes the shriveling of their ego (and probably their balls).

A few want to bemoan how they can not find a regular girlfriend. Or how the last one broke up with them. I’m not meeting you (coffee shop/bar etc) to become your “whine-mate”. I came here with the agenda of vetting you to see if you are qualified to fuck me. How did we go from my being the “Whore” to my becoming the “Madonna”? I am not your “Sister/Mother Confessoress”.

So many guys (of a particular age and upbringing) seem shocked and intimated by a sexually aggressive woman. …

Got Dick? Can I Have Some Dick?

Cuckoldress’ Search
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How Do You Want Your Orgasm Ruined?

polyfetishist — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 18:02:38 +0000

You might want to look at my summary or orgasm ruination and milking Ruined Orgasms Theory & Practice

How Do You Want Your Orgasm Ruined?
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A Kinky Love Story

polyfetishist — Wed, 17 Aug 2011 14:57:40 +0000

As Slavegirl Sissy points out often the quotidian interferes with a power exchange dynamic.

But submission is not always like a porn movie. Sometimes its hard, difficult, frustrating (in the bad sense). Sometimes there are arguments, misunderstandings. Sometimes real life just gets in the way.

I find myself slightly suspicious when I see blog/forum entries that’s basically describe a 24/7 porn movie BDSM lifestyle where everyone seems to be in everyone else’s pants all the time. No one seems to have job or child responsibilities, or ever seems get tired, ill, or just not in the mood.

Slavegirl Sissy

A Kinky Love Story
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Devling into Deviance

polyfetishist — Tue, 16 Aug 2011 14:50:54 +0000

Devling into Deviance’s motto is “Ponderings on kink and female domination.”

From the blog’s about page:

… I am somewhat new to female domination, but have been interested in it for a few years. This is my chosen forum for exploring my ideas as they come along. Sometimes this will involve building on them or modifying them. I do not offer a definitive guide, but rather, perhaps, a woman with whom others will be able to relate. I don’t want to be put on a pedestal, and I would never accept money for what I do. I am a real woman, complete with imperfections and strong emotions. I am a sadist and a masochist. I like to tie others up and be tied up. However, when it comes to D/s, I prefer the dominant role. …

Devling into Deviance

A fine and thoughtful blog.

Devling into Deviance
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F/m Photographs & Images

polyfetishist — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 01:40:33 +0000

This is the lates iteration of my periodic roundup of some of the F/m images that I’ve scattered around the web.

F/mish fashion ads:

Female Led Images

More complete fashion editorials:

Female Domination

And Dominatrix Drawings and Paintings.

F/m Photographs & Images
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Femdom Cave’s Blog

polyfetishist — Sun, 14 Aug 2011 14:33:15 +0000

Femdom Cave doesn’t have the most useful name in Femdom but so many domain names have been bought and hoarded by speculators you have to work with what is available.

Femdom Cave is a site filled with F/m eBooks. The cost seems modest and there are free stories as well. The site looks very clean and professional.

What makes Femdom Cave here is the site has a blog that you can follow to learn about their latest Femdom eBooks.

If it sounds appealing visit: Femdom Cave’s Blog.

Femdom Cave’s Blog
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Woman’s Servant, Not Slave

polyfetishist — Sat, 23 Apr 2011 10:19:47 +0000

“Slave” implies an inequality from the get go.

Here’s how my FLR works:

“So we have edged back toward a rather elegant, understated, world in which I am the servant/lover of the very elegant lady of the house. Hannah is beautiful, nicely demanding and able to give an order without anyone, except me, knowing she has. Part of my duties is to be her maid, taking care of her clothes, making her bed; part is being her servant in the sense of serving her wine or a bit of cheese, doing laundry, wielding the vacuum; part is being her ardent, but always obedient, lover. We work these roles out as we go along.

The one certainty being that I accept and welcome Hannah’s discipline and acknowledge that I have no right to discipline or even talk back to her.” two alphas

Not for everyone, works for us.

Woman’s Servant, Not Slave
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Fat and Tiny

polyfetishist — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 10:22:42 +0000

Fat and Tiny blogs about small penis humiliation and humiliating experiences of the past in general. He’s in a relationship with a distant Mistress. Recently she rewarded him:

As a reward for being good, she recently sent me a couple of recent photos. All I can say is….wow. She’s amazing. I don’t know how I got so lucky. She had to look at my fat ass in session so many times, and I got to look at her perfect body.

Before we met the first time, I was blown away by photos she had on her old website. Then when it came time for our first ever session, she was even more beautiful in person. These days photos will have to do, and I am so lucky to have them.

Fat and Tiny

Fat and Tiny
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Ms Slide

polyfetishist — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 19:26:30 +0000

From Ms Slide’s About page.

She is rumoured to be anything from zero to several million years old, though carbon-dating suggests that she’s probably about thirty. Having loitered around the edges of the fetish scene in London since the late ‘nineties, Ms Slide can often be seen destroying hapless minions at fetish clubs, holding regular private parties and appointments, and doing nasty things to nice people on naughty websites. She’s from the same part of the world that spawned the marvellous Derren Brown, which could explain her love of the hypnotic arts and one-time goatee beard.

As well as being “Best of Forum” Magazine’s agony aunt, Ms Slide has also been made House Mistress for “Forum” and “Desire Presents BDSM” and regularly contributes to all three, as well as a number of other publications. She also helps out at several club nights, especially Club Pedestal where she helps train house slaves and becomes predictably drunk and obnoxious throughout the course of the evening. Ms Slide will happily write in exchange for coins. If you have work for her, do feel free to get in touch.

Ms Slide is a Dominatrix. A Dominatrix is not a prostitute. I will say this again, for those who don’t quite understand, or who have ever inadvertently read The News Of The World: A DOMINATRIX IS NOT A PROSTITUTE. Much as prozzies do an admirable job, as does anyone who works in a profession that involves taking orders from someone else (be they a street-sweeper, soldier, or second-in-command at Microsoft) a Dominatrix doesn’t get fucked in exchange for cash, and is subordinate to nobody. Ms Slide will not be told what to do. She is perfectly aware that her stubbornness is a character defect, but it works very well for her chosen career, so she’s sodding well sticking with it.

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Ms Slide
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