As a strongly masochistic man it always resonates me when I read a dominant woman speaking as Arcadia does here:
I am finding that the more I release My Sadistic side out on whore, the more I come to crave the taste of it, and want it more. There are some cruel things I plan on doing to shadow once he gets here. Things that neither of U/us have done before… like needle play.

Were can I find a sadist like minded woman.