Vanessa Chaland the writer of Cuckold Letters writes about the frustrations of looking for men online:
And then the lies, the flakes, the no-shows. Those that don’t believe me so cancel, or those that are just curious, they want to see if I am real. And when they do, they freak, they try to act tough and macho and slick. But I can see in their eyes the shriveling of their ego (and probably their balls).
A few want to bemoan how they can not find a regular girlfriend. Or how the last one broke up with them. I’m not meeting you (coffee shop/bar etc) to become your “whine-mate”. I came here with the agenda of vetting you to see if you are qualified to fuck me. How did we go from my being the “Whore” to my becoming the “Madonna”? I am not your “Sister/Mother Confessoress”.
So many guys (of a particular age and upbringing) seem shocked and intimated by a sexually aggressive woman. …
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