BDSM the New Gay?

Some claim that having kink or fetish, being into D/s or S&M leads to the ostracism being gay once (?) did. [...]

Things You Dislike / Won’t Do?

Kinky acts that you don’t want to experience or participate in. [...]

If You Could Change Your Kinkiness?

If you could change your kink and fetish needs and desires what would you want to alter? [...]

Male Chastity’s Importance?

In female dominance, male submissive relationships? [...]

The Dominatrix Stereotype

How much does clothing count in being a dominant woman? [...]

Politics & Kink & Fetish & BDSM / Femdom

Are people who participate in BDSM play and lifestyles more likely to conservative, liberal, libertarian, socialist, anarchist? Feminist? [...]

BDSM Switches : Hoax, Dream, Imaginary Story

Is there any reason that a person cannot be both sadistic and masochistic, dominant and submissive? [...]

Power Exchange Without Sadomasochism

What if your submissive isn’t masochistic? What if your dominant isn’t a sadist? [...]

What is Female Dominance?

What is the defining characteristic of a dominant woman? [...]

Pain Play?

What is your favorite form of S&M, either as the masochist or sadist? [...]