• Femdom?
• LFA: Loving Female Authority?
• FLR: Female Led Relationship?
• Labels are a bad idea!

Femdom?
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• Are bottoms more verbal?
• Do they have greater needs for self-expression?
• Are submissive persons and masochists more self-analytical?
• Do dominants fear exposing their inner workings?
• Are tops secretly shy?

While this doesn’t seem to be quite the web truism that it once was, clearly more bottoms blog and post on forums than to tops. Is there some hidden psychological factor at work?

Are Bottoms More Verbal Than Tops?
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• Male Fantasy?
• Female Fantasy?

Female Supremacy
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Some actually enjoy performing as animals. The roles range from house pet to beast of burden.

What sorts of pet role capture your imagination, either as something you live or just for really hot fantasies?

• Puppy
• Dog
• Cat
• Horse (racing)
• Horse (draft animal)
• Pig
• Some other animal
• Purely human pet

What Kind of Pet Are You?
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Submissive Male Openness
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Have you ever had the niggling worry or nagging fear that their submission might one day fall out of perspective, leave you unbalance in your response to it?

Fear that their worship will become too important to your self-esteem?

Three of Three in a Row

Master or Mistress : Is Worship Addictive?
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For some this is just an extreme fantasy. They may use it as a way to achieve orgasm while masturbating.

Others had an upbringing that left them sick with guilt about their sexuality.

And another group are men who are transgendered but can’t admit that.

Have you had fantasies of yourself being castrated or forced to undergo a penectomy?

Do you really want to be a gelded human male?

If you do: why?

Penectomy, Castration?
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Slave Conditioning Options:

• Intense physical pain
• Pain without a safeword
• Light but prolonged physical suffering
• Heavy bondage, confinement
• Isolation, loneliness
• Boring labor
• Repetitive tasks
• Flashing lights and recorded messages
• Protocols that restrict speech
• Protocols that restrict movement
• Random acts
• Written essays
• Frequent acts of homage
• Verbal humiliation
• Degrading acts

My there’s just no end to the possibilities. Likely you would probably select some of the menu presented above. Perhaps every single item.

Whether on top or on bottom what do you think makes the ideal slave conditioning routine for a voluntary slave in a BDSM relationship?

(NB: despite the title of this site: all genders and orientations are welcome to comment.)

Conditioning & Training
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Or not so right.

Is there some specific physical attribute you feel that you need in a woman before you can feel submissive to her?

• Breast size or shape?
• Narrow waist?
• Special sort of buttocks or hips?
• Hair color, eye color?
• Something about her face?

Or if you are a dominant woman do you require that any man you take control of be:

• Tall?
• Muscular?
• Skinny?
• Clean-shaven?
• Circumcised?

Are there certain bodily qualities, attributes that are a must for you?

Femdom & Body Types
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Is this:

• True?
• A Fun Fantasy?
• Wrong. Very Wrong?

Can a Domme Be Wrong?
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