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A little spank, makes you think you are the luckiest man in the world
After a couple of weeks of no release without assistance, my frustration was growing and I was loosing faith. Then after a minor transgression, my wife finally gave me a good spank that night. Now I think I am the luckiest guy in the whole world.There are several popular TV shows that referes men's desire to be spanked/dominated and were afraid to tell there wife/lover. "Desperate Housewifes", "Sex in the City", and several HBO specials all mentioned it. On the internet you find men who want to be spanked, but there wifes will not comply - either they are too scared to ask or there wifes refuse.
But I am in a relationship in which my wife spanks me regurlarly. I am so lucky.
When I started this blog, my wife rarely spanked me (twice a year), but it has come a more frequent occurance twice in the last two weeks.
I think spanking is my wifes preferred way to may me come now (when she is too tire for sex, but thinks I deserve it). It takes the least amount of effort for her, less messy than a hand job, less work than getting on top of me and wrapping her breast around my manhood, and less sweaty than me groping over her while I come.
She has gotten so into it she spanks me quite hard. When she started spanking me, she would be very gentle and I would have to name things that I had done bad to get her to spank harder. Now she spanks hard without my prodding and will bring up things I did wrong herself for particularly hard whips. I always think of things to say - but think better of it - for example "I am sorry I stared so long at our neighbor Tammy yesterday" <- That particular one would have probably gotten me me worse pain ever..
My butt stays sore for quite a while afterwards. The next day at work I am noticably sore. A couple of days later I can still feel a slight pain, but I can go a hour without noticing it..
Back to my original point, do other submissive husband wonder if they are the luckiest man in the world to find someone that can satisfy their desires...
I love my wife.
Maybe the bring back the massage was not such a wise idea
After a couple of years of only being submissive during the weekend, with a release at the end of the weekend, my wife has changed the rules a bit lately.
She has been more demanding, making me more submissive, all week - with release (with her permission and assistance spank/nipple-pinch/handjob/sex) almost every night. This has been going on for a couple of weeks and the tradeoff seems worth it, more work, more release.
In my last post, I mentioned I would bring back the massage on those few nights when I did not get release. A sort of appreciation for her understanding.
But now my wife expects it every night, instead of giving me release. She will roll over on her side and I will massage her back. When she is done - she is too tired to satisfy me.
It is almost as if she feels I got to massage her, that should be as gratifying for me as sex or other form of release. My mind somewhat agrees, I am submissive, I should be worried about her pleasure. But my loins really do not agree. I am getting very horney with all this demands during the day and massaging her at night and no release.
Maybe I should have just not given her those massages...
It is the price I pay for the pleasure of the submision i enjoy...
I love my wife.
She has been more demanding, making me more submissive, all week - with release (with her permission and assistance spank/nipple-pinch/handjob/sex) almost every night. This has been going on for a couple of weeks and the tradeoff seems worth it, more work, more release.
In my last post, I mentioned I would bring back the massage on those few nights when I did not get release. A sort of appreciation for her understanding.
But now my wife expects it every night, instead of giving me release. She will roll over on her side and I will massage her back. When she is done - she is too tired to satisfy me.
It is almost as if she feels I got to massage her, that should be as gratifying for me as sex or other form of release. My mind somewhat agrees, I am submissive, I should be worried about her pleasure. But my loins really do not agree. I am getting very horney with all this demands during the day and massaging her at night and no release.
Maybe I should have just not given her those massages...
It is the price I pay for the pleasure of the submision i enjoy...
I love my wife.
Lost art of the massage
I must say the past couple of weeks have been great. My wife has become more demanding, but at the same time, more willing to satisfy me in the evenings.
After reading another blog (Helpmate Hubby) and he frustating massage he had to give when expecting something more, I realized I had not massaged my wife's back in months.
So I am trying to bring back the massage into our life, massaging her as we get to bed. Regardless of whether I receive release or not.
I do not know if this will encourage her to be more demanding or make her more willing to please me. It will be fun to learn.
I love my wife.
After reading another blog (Helpmate Hubby) and he frustating massage he had to give when expecting something more, I realized I had not massaged my wife's back in months.
So I am trying to bring back the massage into our life, massaging her as we get to bed. Regardless of whether I receive release or not.
I do not know if this will encourage her to be more demanding or make her more willing to please me. It will be fun to learn.
I love my wife.
Been a good week, but my butt is sore.
After last weekend, my wife has kept up her demanding ways all week, but at the same time allowing/helping me come every night.
Before this week we would only play the game on some weekends and she would very rarely help me come otherwise. I masterbated a couple of times a week. I have not had to masterbate in 10 days a new record for me I think.
On Monday, she told me to start cooking as soon as I got home. She sat down and started watching TV. She was demanding all day. Asking me to massage her feet for an hour while she watched treasure hunters. At night she cuddled up beside me and gave me a hand job.
On Tuesday, I told her I thought we should have sex. She agreed.
- During the evening when I asked if she could pick something up she said – “well you want sex tonight don’t you”. She has become so blatent.
- Later she asked for a book and I could not find it, she found it and immediately said I needed a spank – I blew it off because she would say thing like this all the time.
- At night she was watching her video, when I came in she told me to go mop while she got in the mood.
– With the kitchen floor shiny, I came in and started massaging her pussy with my hand. Usually she stops the foreplay when she is ready. This night she clamped her legs around my hand and would not let it free until she was done.
– I asked her what about this holding my hard-on. She told me to get a towel and lay on my belly. She grabbed her whip and hit my butt hard. She then put on the TV and watched TV while she whipped me till I came.
On Wednesday she was bossy again. She told me if I was good I would get another spank since I like it so much. I told her my butt was sore and she called me a whimp. After a full evening of doing her will and her relaxing she did make me come by squeezing my nipples as I played with myself.
By Thursday it was obvious things had changed for the whole week as she sat on the couch and told me what she wanted for supper. When then evening was over and the house clean, I was on the bed on my belly being whipped again, with the TV on.
I am not sure what to think of her turning on the TV, watching David Letterman while she whips my butt. It kind of ruins the mood because of the distraction and knowing she is not paying attention to me. But the humilation of being just a distraction for her while she watches her show increases my horniness. And she is not in a rush to make me come when she is watching her show so she will sometimes take a break for a minute or so – increasing the intensity. In addition the submissive side of me is happy that she is happy watching her show.
So in the past week I had my butt whipped three times, as much as I had in the year before that. My wife had helped me come every night in some form or another, another record (my wife commented that she thought I would run out of come by now). I had cooked, cleaned and washed clothes every night. It was a good week, but my butt was starting to get sore from the whippings, but I am powerless to stop it.
I love my wife.
Before this week we would only play the game on some weekends and she would very rarely help me come otherwise. I masterbated a couple of times a week. I have not had to masterbate in 10 days a new record for me I think.
On Monday, she told me to start cooking as soon as I got home. She sat down and started watching TV. She was demanding all day. Asking me to massage her feet for an hour while she watched treasure hunters. At night she cuddled up beside me and gave me a hand job.
On Tuesday, I told her I thought we should have sex. She agreed.
- During the evening when I asked if she could pick something up she said – “well you want sex tonight don’t you”. She has become so blatent.
- Later she asked for a book and I could not find it, she found it and immediately said I needed a spank – I blew it off because she would say thing like this all the time.
- At night she was watching her video, when I came in she told me to go mop while she got in the mood.
– With the kitchen floor shiny, I came in and started massaging her pussy with my hand. Usually she stops the foreplay when she is ready. This night she clamped her legs around my hand and would not let it free until she was done.
– I asked her what about this holding my hard-on. She told me to get a towel and lay on my belly. She grabbed her whip and hit my butt hard. She then put on the TV and watched TV while she whipped me till I came.
On Wednesday she was bossy again. She told me if I was good I would get another spank since I like it so much. I told her my butt was sore and she called me a whimp. After a full evening of doing her will and her relaxing she did make me come by squeezing my nipples as I played with myself.
By Thursday it was obvious things had changed for the whole week as she sat on the couch and told me what she wanted for supper. When then evening was over and the house clean, I was on the bed on my belly being whipped again, with the TV on.
I am not sure what to think of her turning on the TV, watching David Letterman while she whips my butt. It kind of ruins the mood because of the distraction and knowing she is not paying attention to me. But the humilation of being just a distraction for her while she watches her show increases my horniness. And she is not in a rush to make me come when she is watching her show so she will sometimes take a break for a minute or so – increasing the intensity. In addition the submissive side of me is happy that she is happy watching her show.
So in the past week I had my butt whipped three times, as much as I had in the year before that. My wife had helped me come every night in some form or another, another record (my wife commented that she thought I would run out of come by now). I had cooked, cleaned and washed clothes every night. It was a good week, but my butt was starting to get sore from the whippings, but I am powerless to stop it.
I love my wife.
I have created a monster
We were coming back from a week-long camp vacation, in which I did not get to come because of the sleeping arrangements.
My wife asked how I was doing and I told her I was horny. She asked what we should do about that. She was having her period so sex was not an option (she does not want it during that time the month). I told her I could clean the weeks clothes and she could spank me to make me come that night. She agreed, saying she wanted everything washed – sheets and even clothes that were not dirty since the cabin had bugs in it..
The rest of the day, I washed clothes, cooked and cleaned the house while she slept and caught up on her Tivoed shows. There was way to much clothes to wash to finish by the end of the evening.
That evening, after my shower I got on the bed naked with a towel to catch my cum.
She asked if I was done with the clothes.
I told I was not.
She spanked my butt a couple of times.
I asked her if she would let me cum.
She told me she had not decided..
She spanked me a couple of more times
I told her if she wanted me to stay her slave boy she should stop
She did not stop.
I gratefully came.
I thought, that was the end of it. Normally when I come, the rest of the weekend is free time. But I was wrong.
The next morning my wife told me, you better get on the clothes if you want a spank again tonight. I am so weak and she knows it. All she has to do is hint that she is in charge and she knows I will drop in line.
When it started it was always my idea to be her slave-boy. If I did not feel like playing for a weekend, I just would not bring it up. Now, over half the time she will initiate it. Even if I did not want to before she mentioned it, as soon as she mentions that I should “get busy”, I am putty in her hand.
I wonder how far it will go. Will she have me as her slave almost every weekend because she has started to enjoy it and almost expect it? Will she start to bring it into the weekdays? I have become powerless to her whims…
I love my wife.
My wife asked how I was doing and I told her I was horny. She asked what we should do about that. She was having her period so sex was not an option (she does not want it during that time the month). I told her I could clean the weeks clothes and she could spank me to make me come that night. She agreed, saying she wanted everything washed – sheets and even clothes that were not dirty since the cabin had bugs in it..
The rest of the day, I washed clothes, cooked and cleaned the house while she slept and caught up on her Tivoed shows. There was way to much clothes to wash to finish by the end of the evening.
That evening, after my shower I got on the bed naked with a towel to catch my cum.
She asked if I was done with the clothes.
I told I was not.
She spanked my butt a couple of times.
I asked her if she would let me cum.
She told me she had not decided..
She spanked me a couple of more times
I told her if she wanted me to stay her slave boy she should stop
She did not stop.
I gratefully came.
I thought, that was the end of it. Normally when I come, the rest of the weekend is free time. But I was wrong.
The next morning my wife told me, you better get on the clothes if you want a spank again tonight. I am so weak and she knows it. All she has to do is hint that she is in charge and she knows I will drop in line.
When it started it was always my idea to be her slave-boy. If I did not feel like playing for a weekend, I just would not bring it up. Now, over half the time she will initiate it. Even if I did not want to before she mentioned it, as soon as she mentions that I should “get busy”, I am putty in her hand.
I wonder how far it will go. Will she have me as her slave almost every weekend because she has started to enjoy it and almost expect it? Will she start to bring it into the weekdays? I have become powerless to her whims…
I love my wife.
How to punish this submissive?
How do you punish a submissive(or masochist)? I expect it is different for each one of us.
My punishments, may be another submissives fantasy. Their fantasy, may be my punishment.
I enjoy a good spank, especially when I have been bad, it motivates me. Tying me up is an all time fantasy. Generally pain just gets me hornier.
We have our unspoken rules that no-one else should know about the game, so public humiliation is out.
There are two punishments that my wife can bestow on me when I have been bad or failed her….
1) Her satify herself – I love making my wife come. It is what I enjoy most about being her submissive. If I am bad, she can satisfy herself either making me lay calmly beside her or leave the room.
2) Make me satisfy myself out of her presence – I enjoy coming with her, whether sex, coming between her breast, or even her teasing my nipples while I make myself come. If I am bad, I am told to go to the bathroom and do not come back until I am done. I am heartbroken..
I love my wife and am usually a good slave and she has seldom had to resort to these. Afterwards, the next weekend I am much better.
I love my wife.
My punishments, may be another submissives fantasy. Their fantasy, may be my punishment.
I enjoy a good spank, especially when I have been bad, it motivates me. Tying me up is an all time fantasy. Generally pain just gets me hornier.
We have our unspoken rules that no-one else should know about the game, so public humiliation is out.
There are two punishments that my wife can bestow on me when I have been bad or failed her….
1) Her satify herself – I love making my wife come. It is what I enjoy most about being her submissive. If I am bad, she can satisfy herself either making me lay calmly beside her or leave the room.
2) Make me satisfy myself out of her presence – I enjoy coming with her, whether sex, coming between her breast, or even her teasing my nipples while I make myself come. If I am bad, I am told to go to the bathroom and do not come back until I am done. I am heartbroken..
I love my wife and am usually a good slave and she has seldom had to resort to these. Afterwards, the next weekend I am much better.
I love my wife.
Spankings
This past Memorial day weekend, after coming back from a two night trip to the beach I slip into becoming my wife submissive again.
As I think back upon it after most of our out of town trips I become submissive to my wife on the way back. I think this is do to several factors…
- During our vacations I sleep in a smaller bed with my wife so we are always in contact. We have a king size at home and can go all night without touching. So that gets me horny.
- We never have sex on our vacations because of sleeping arrangements with the kids and relatives in the next room. So I get hornier.
- On the trips back, I usually fantasize about being my wife’s submissive – because the horniness of it keeps me alert during driving.
- My wife is exhausted from the vacation so she wants to rest and knows all she has to do is a little tease and denial and she gets a break.
- There is always a lot of work to be done and my wife is appreciative of not having to do it.
These factors, lots of work, horniness, and an exhausted wife are a perfect mixture for a submissive weekend.
If others men want to introduce your wife to the perks of having a submissive husband I would suggest after getting back from your next vacation you tell your wife to relax while you unpack. I expect she will be very grateful and receptive to how to get more of this type of treatment.Her RemoteControl
I love being submissive to my wife. During our lovemaking, the submissive side really comes out. I enjoy when I am eating her out or having sex that she controls the tempo by pinching and prodding me.
On our submissive weekends, while I eat her out, she will squeeze my butt when she wants it harder. When I am allowed inside of her, it is on her terms -she will squeeze my nipples or slap my butt if she wants it harder- I am not allowed to slack off.
She knows she can take her time coming when she is in charge. Normally I grow tired after 10 minutes or so. But when she is in charge she can get me to perform much longer.
I feel as though I am just her remote control dildo, with buttons on my nipples and butt to control her pleasure.
I love my wife.
On our submissive weekends, while I eat her out, she will squeeze my butt when she wants it harder. When I am allowed inside of her, it is on her terms -she will squeeze my nipples or slap my butt if she wants it harder- I am not allowed to slack off.
She knows she can take her time coming when she is in charge. Normally I grow tired after 10 minutes or so. But when she is in charge she can get me to perform much longer.
I feel as though I am just her remote control dildo, with buttons on my nipples and butt to control her pleasure.
I love my wife.
Weight control
My wife has lost 30 pounds in the last 6 months.
Before that, when we played our game where she was in control and I was submissive, she kept putting on weight on the weekends we played. She would relax the entire weekend, sleep in, take naps. She would be pampered and never go out to exercise. I would cook her favorite meals (usually fattening). Give her mixed drinks at night. I would bring her a bowl of her favorite ice cream as she watched TV at night (as I cleaned the house of course).
She complained and like a good submissive I changed. I started cooking healthier. I encouraged her to go to the gym. I helped arrange tennis matches with her friends. I brought her carrots or grapes instead of ice cream at night (I still cleaned of course).
Most of her wieght loss was from her own hard work during the week that I had little to do with. I just tried to make sure I was not ruining her efforts on the weekends.
It takes a lot of consideration and compromising to try to work a submissive lifestyle into the ups and downs of a normal marriage. Put the rewards are great for those of us into this type of thing..
I love my wife.
Before that, when we played our game where she was in control and I was submissive, she kept putting on weight on the weekends we played. She would relax the entire weekend, sleep in, take naps. She would be pampered and never go out to exercise. I would cook her favorite meals (usually fattening). Give her mixed drinks at night. I would bring her a bowl of her favorite ice cream as she watched TV at night (as I cleaned the house of course).
She complained and like a good submissive I changed. I started cooking healthier. I encouraged her to go to the gym. I helped arrange tennis matches with her friends. I brought her carrots or grapes instead of ice cream at night (I still cleaned of course).
Most of her wieght loss was from her own hard work during the week that I had little to do with. I just tried to make sure I was not ruining her efforts on the weekends.
It takes a lot of consideration and compromising to try to work a submissive lifestyle into the ups and downs of a normal marriage. Put the rewards are great for those of us into this type of thing..
I love my wife.
Out of the rut
I had enjoyed our game of me being submissive for a weekend immensely, but we had gotten into a little of a rut. I think we might have broken that rut this past weekend.
Usually - At the end of the first day I always satisfied my wife and I was left horney. The next night, no matter how I performed, we would have sex or my wife would wrap her breast around my cock and make me come. I was getting pretty sloppy with getting everything done because I knew I would be allowed a pleasurable release.
But this weekend that assumption was put to rest..
It started like most weekends, me making a bad comment. In this case, I said that since she was off on Friday she could clean the house since her sister was coming into town. That night I told my wife I wanted sex, but during foreplay she pushed my head to her cunt until she came, then told me I would have to wait.
The next day found a longer than usual honey-do list. I started working on them quickly to try to get through them. From experience, a completed honey-do list led to a pleasurable release.
During the day while I was cleaning upstairs, she asked me if I was slacking or working. I smarted off that I was slacking. She told me I would pay for that tonight. Then ordered me to come kneel and worship her – the first time she had ever done that.
As the day wore on, it was clear I would not finish my list and the house would not be clean, so my wife pitched in.
That night, I announced that my honey-do list was complete. After a shower, I settled into bed naked laying on my back, stroking my hard cock. She told me to roll over onto my belly, I thought that was interesting. Then I heard the drawer with her whip (she had not used it on me in 6 months since my birthday) open.
Whack on my butt – Me – "I love you" – After ever strike of the whip on my butt, I tell her that I love her, so she does not feel guilty about doing it.
Wife:"I do not think you should tell ME I have to clean the house!"
Whack… Me- "I Love you"
Wife "I did not appreciate your smart tounge this afternoon about slacking…"
Whack.. Whack.. Me- "I Love you"
Wife- "Do you like it that you do not know when it is coming?" She always alternates the tempo of her spanking. She seems to get a kick out of keeping me guessing.
Whack..Me- "I Love you"
Wife- "And I do not appreciate having to " Whack "help you cleanup" Whack "what good is having a slave if I have to help"
Whack
Wife – "What else did you do wrong?"
She pauses the spanking until I give her reasons to continue. I am too horney to deny her.
Me – "I did not fold all the clothes, I left them in the dryer for you"
Whack… Whack.. Me- "I Love you"
Me – "I left dishes in the sink, I knew you would not notice till tommorrow".
Whack… Whack.. Me- "I Love you"
Me – "May I please come"
Whack..
Wife – "Do you deserve it?"
Me – "Please"
Whack
Wife – "Will you do better next time?"
Me – "Yes"
Whack
Wife – "Then you may come"
Whack.
Me- "I Love you"Whack.. Whack
Me- "I Love you"Whack.. Whack
Me- "Thank you"
Although I enjoy being spanked every one in a while (twice a year would be fine for me), I felt I had let my wife down. That I had not been good enough for this weekend. My wife now has an option if I do not perform well enough, I will not get to feel her breast around my cock, I will get the whip. From her point of view, it is less work for her to whip me and not as demeening – So I have to be extra good..
Since there is concequences to my actions, I keep thinking of how I can better serve my wife. How I can not be so sloppy, how I can get everything done on my list.
As a side note, the next day my butt was a little sore and I corrected all the things that had gone wrong the day before. My wife sometimes complained that after I was allowed to come the next day I became sluggish – this did not happen with a sore butt.
I love my wife.
Usually - At the end of the first day I always satisfied my wife and I was left horney. The next night, no matter how I performed, we would have sex or my wife would wrap her breast around my cock and make me come. I was getting pretty sloppy with getting everything done because I knew I would be allowed a pleasurable release.
But this weekend that assumption was put to rest..
It started like most weekends, me making a bad comment. In this case, I said that since she was off on Friday she could clean the house since her sister was coming into town. That night I told my wife I wanted sex, but during foreplay she pushed my head to her cunt until she came, then told me I would have to wait.
The next day found a longer than usual honey-do list. I started working on them quickly to try to get through them. From experience, a completed honey-do list led to a pleasurable release.
During the day while I was cleaning upstairs, she asked me if I was slacking or working. I smarted off that I was slacking. She told me I would pay for that tonight. Then ordered me to come kneel and worship her – the first time she had ever done that.
As the day wore on, it was clear I would not finish my list and the house would not be clean, so my wife pitched in.
That night, I announced that my honey-do list was complete. After a shower, I settled into bed naked laying on my back, stroking my hard cock. She told me to roll over onto my belly, I thought that was interesting. Then I heard the drawer with her whip (she had not used it on me in 6 months since my birthday) open.
Whack on my butt – Me – "I love you" – After ever strike of the whip on my butt, I tell her that I love her, so she does not feel guilty about doing it.
Wife:"I do not think you should tell ME I have to clean the house!"
Whack… Me- "I Love you"
Wife "I did not appreciate your smart tounge this afternoon about slacking…"
Whack.. Whack.. Me- "I Love you"
Wife- "Do you like it that you do not know when it is coming?" She always alternates the tempo of her spanking. She seems to get a kick out of keeping me guessing.
Whack..Me- "I Love you"
Wife- "And I do not appreciate having to " Whack "help you cleanup" Whack "what good is having a slave if I have to help"
Whack
Wife – "What else did you do wrong?"
She pauses the spanking until I give her reasons to continue. I am too horney to deny her.
Me – "I did not fold all the clothes, I left them in the dryer for you"
Whack… Whack.. Me- "I Love you"
Me – "I left dishes in the sink, I knew you would not notice till tommorrow".
Whack… Whack.. Me- "I Love you"
Me – "May I please come"
Whack..
Wife – "Do you deserve it?"
Me – "Please"
Whack
Wife – "Will you do better next time?"
Me – "Yes"
Whack
Wife – "Then you may come"
Whack.
Me- "I Love you"Whack.. Whack
Me- "I Love you"Whack.. Whack
Me- "Thank you"
Although I enjoy being spanked every one in a while (twice a year would be fine for me), I felt I had let my wife down. That I had not been good enough for this weekend. My wife now has an option if I do not perform well enough, I will not get to feel her breast around my cock, I will get the whip. From her point of view, it is less work for her to whip me and not as demeening – So I have to be extra good..
Since there is concequences to my actions, I keep thinking of how I can better serve my wife. How I can not be so sloppy, how I can get everything done on my list.
As a side note, the next day my butt was a little sore and I corrected all the things that had gone wrong the day before. My wife sometimes complained that after I was allowed to come the next day I became sluggish – this did not happen with a sore butt.
I love my wife.