And then the lies, the flakes, the no-shows. Those that don’t believe me so cancel, or those that are just curious, they want to see if I am real. And when they do, they freak, they try to act tough and macho and slick. But I can see in their eyes the shriveling of their ego (and probably their balls).

A few want to bemoan how they can not find a regular girlfriend. Or how the last one broke up with them. I’m not meeting you (coffee shop/bar etc) to become your “whine-mate”. I came here with the agenda of vetting you to see if you are qualified to fuck me. How did we go from my being the “Whore” to my becoming the “Madonna”? I am not your “Sister/Mother Confessoress”.

So many guys (of a particular age and upbringing) seem shocked and intimated by a sexually aggressive woman. …

Got Dick? Can I Have Some Dick?

Cuckoldress’ Search
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Most cuckolding on the web is trash: fake blogs and bad porn. But a few women who cuckold their very willing husbands have the talents for sharing their experiences.

Jinxy is one of the good ones. She has a blog, a forum and a couple of other cuckoldry sites. I’m going to point you to the forum, which will lead you to all the rest.

One the forum you can read the inevitable “feminized by wife and lover” and “sexless cuckold.” Jinxy’s husband participates as well.

Just Jinxy Forum

Discussions With a Modern Cuckoldress
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“In today’s world, dating sites are a dime a dozen, with thousands of sites created every day copying the same true and tested formula but getting little or no user interaction because of the ‘been there done that’ feeling that users get,” she said.

Potential members must go through an approval process to join the site, where they’ll be able to post pictures and videos of their exploits while maintaining a personal blog and participating in forums.

If cuckoldry is something that absorbs your imagination you can take a look at the site:

CuckoldSpace

Honestly I can’t tell if more than porn is going on here. If you are a member of the site feel free to leave a comment.

CuckoldSpace
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Perhaps the answer lies in the powerful biochemical conditions that accompany good sex. Perhaps a common theme when cuckolding goes wrong in a good marriage is the transfer of positive emotions from spouse to the new lover? Perhaps some of it is the result of unrestrained slavishness meeting up with hedonism taken unto selfishness. Can a great thing like submission and service be taken far enough to cause a lady to disregard or even discard a person who was once the most special person in her life?

Cuckolding Part II-why it might ruin a good thing

Cuckoldry : The Consequences
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1. Since the relationship entails bringing more sexual energy into the relationship my wife complained that I was too interested in sex, that my whole life had become about sex, and that it’s all I could think about. Yes it was true.
2. It I went a few days being teased without ejaculation I wasn’t able to maintain a proper erection in order to give her satisfactory pleasure. I’m a healthy 29 year old man who normally has no problem, but once I became extremely submissive I just couldn’t get it up and if I did, I’d have a premature ejaculation.
3. I noticed that many (although certainly not all) websites discussing female led marriage discuss cuckoldry. Once I discovered my own inability to please my wife and her disappointment I started to understand why. I know for certain that is a line I don’t want to cross and I’m afraid that if we continued with a female led marriage, and my inability to maintain erection, I could easily end up getting excited by the idea and wanting to introduce her to it.

We decided to go back to our (bad)old 50/50

How did we get started in LFA?

Loving Female Cuckoldry?
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What I have learned since is that the “thrill” of cuckolding is the humiliation; however, if it is totally your idea, and you even push her into it, then it is not really a true humiliation. When my wife decided to become intimate with another man, to attempt to conceal it from me, to compare him to me, and then to defiantly tell me that she planned to continue her relationship with him, I felt real anger.

Cuckold

Cuckholdry & Humiliation
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I couldn’t live with a man who was submissive in every aspect of his character. I couldn’t abide a husband who wouldn’t stand up for himself, who would meekly say nothing if someone pushed ahead of him in a queue. The great attraction of Martin now is the combination of the sexual submissiveness he displays with me, and the otherwise confident, assertive character he displays to the rest of the world. Alone with his Mistress he really is a small-pricked, heel-sucking, arse-licking, faggot-minded, sissy failure, and fully deserves every stroke of the whip I give him. The rest of the time, however, he’s a strong-willed, impressive, dynamic individual with a very engaging personality. Although many men think that Martin is very lucky to be married to me, I know for a fact that as many women feel that I’m the lucky one. You don’t get to build the business my husband has (and at such a young age) by lacking drive, intelligence and skill, and you certainly don’t last long if you let others walk all over you.

The Symbolism Of Cuckoldry

A Man Worth Cuckolding
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As sick and twisted as that may seem, the danger, the insecurity, the abject shame and humiliation are at the core of the “enjoyment” of such an experience.

If I was being cuckolded, I know I would be miserable but I would also be turned on by such a flagrant display of power by my Mistress Wife.

My Wife has, from time to time, made me fall on my knees in pure adoration and lust simply by entertaining the idea that she may, some year in the future, choose to divorce me and keep my as simply her slave. That scenario pushes the same buttons: I would be insecure, no longer legally joined with her as an equal in the eyes of the law, and totally dependent on her. I would not be her submissive husband, just her slaveboy, stripped of all rights.

“More on cuckolding”

Abject Shame and Humiliation
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What I am trying to do is for my wife to humiliate me more. Why? Well, I believe that she needs to loose a little respect for me and realize I am not at her same level. This can be done subtlety when involved with people who do not share the same feelings. Ordering me around in front of people so they get the feeling that I at her service works. They shake heir head and smirk at me as I do as I am told. My wife then feels empowered.

When alone, I try to be subservient. However, I sometimes falter which discourages my wife and once again it’s like climbing a hill to get back to where we were. I need to really work on this. I am gradually turning over the financial control to my wife. …

A small step

A Submale’s Humiliation
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Femdom lifestyles and fantasies can include so many different fetishes, but humiliation is always the most important element at the root of it all. There are stereotypes in the vanilla world of what it means to sexually dominate & humiliate a man. They always see the dungeon-bitch with the whip, the dog collar on the slave, and yes, there are many of those. But dominance can be softer, and quieter too, yet pack the same sting to his ego. The same effect on his willingness to serve his mistress.

Humiliation First

Cuckold Humiliation
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