The Real Domme

BDSM is a constant state of becoming: roles and moods are shifting dialectical experiences. [...]

Male Slave Training Protocols

Adding protocols to a BDSM relationship. [...]

Femdom Alchemy

Performing mundane tasks is one way in which a submissive man expressing his love for his Mistress. [...]

Expectations & Connections

Emotional responsibilities of both dominant and submissive people. [...]

Emotional Sadism

The satisfaction of strong humiliation play. Easily mistaken by outsiders as abuse it can be a powerful, ultimately happy experience on both sides of the power exchange. [...]

Young Female Sadists

Sadomasochistic impulses during early childhood. [...]

Burn Out

Call it top drop, sub drop: we all have times when we feel worn out and tired of kink, fetish and sexuality in general. [...]

Goddess, Lady, Ma’am, Mistress?

Dominant women who want to use formal titles face the problem that most terms seem corrupt or tainted by bad associations. [...]

The Emotional Connection in D/s

Female dominance of the male is enhanced by a deep emotional connection. [...]

Why Pet Rather than Slave, Submissive or Bottom?

Why a male slave chooses to identify as a human but not an animal-role pet. [...]