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Starting a FemDom Marriage

I think I first saw Mrs. Claudia on FemmeDomme.com. Here she writes of taking control of what had been a miserable marriage:

… After 5 years of a totally unhappy marriage, I found out that my husband had a secret life, involving the Internet. He had promised over and over that if he absolutely could not live without BDSM, that he would be a man and leave me. Well, that didn’t happen. I found out that for years he had been trolling the Internet, looking for other women to play with, both Pro’s and non-Pro’s. In the end he was looking for a partner that he could be with.

The day I found out he had this secret life, I also found out that I had cervical cancer. I was in process of leaving him when those plans came to a screeching halt. I had to have surgery, and I would be down for a minimum of 6 weeks. Knowing that I was stuck with this man, I agreed that I would give him one more chance, but if I did some things were going to change. I took away his Internet privileges by putting blocker software on his computers. I began reading all I could on Female Domination, and what I found was wonderful. I found sites that explain the benefits of Female Domination and not just the whip wielding Dommes. I found that the way I had felt was common to other women, and I found the solution to that dilemma. I am including links to the wonderful sites where I learned what real life FemDom is all about.

Starting a FemDom Marriage

3 comments to Starting a FemDom Marriage

  • submale61

    i share an identical situation. i have been in a vanilla marrige for 39 years. i love my wife very much. but i am driven by my submissive and masochistic needs and desires. i have roamed the web for release for years – always to disappear when i get too close to a woman who may cause me concern and guilt about my wife. She knows about my secret and in the past has beaten me with the implements i have purchased for her. But this is a consequence of what she believes will bring me pleasure. It does not come from her desire to dominate, torture and control a man – which is what i need. Twice she has found a stash of the most extreme BDSM material i could download onto my computer. She insists that is tantamount to cheating on her. After the second time it is amazing that we are still together. Unfortunately, she now lives in denial of my desires and, internally, i try to deny them as well (at least until the urge becomes so strong that i cannot help but act upon it). As anyone who understands the dynamics knows, i can’t deny them. my secret life continues, i masturbate to pictures and videos depicting pain inflicted upon hapless males at the mercy of sadistic females. To make a long story short, it is almost impossible for me to experience a vanilla orgasm. And my wife insists that the first time we have sex and i can’t get an erection – i’m gone.
    i know that even after 39 years i should leave. But i do love her and would do anything to save my marriage. In that sense, i am totally submissive to her.
    If anyone can offer advice or counsel, i would appreciate your input.

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