Oldbear writes about the tranmuting power the conscious service element can have in a D/s relationship:
To me that is the alchemy of D/s–as the original alchemists strove to make gold out of base metals, our subbie has wrought the sublime from the mundane. if the relationship is run right, this can and does happen. I know that even in my vanilla marriage the sweet extra things I do often go EXTERNALLY unacknowldeged, and that some times feels soooo bad to me. But it passes.
Deep & Tender Love shown by the mundane, Alchemy from D/s
Of course! I have the same breakfast she does except I finally wash mine down with a shot of her cold piss from the fridge. My idea, not hers, these little gestures mean alot.