Shamed has abandoned money masochism finding it too self-destructive. Instead he’s working to experience within S&M the personal fulfillment he found in financial slavery:
Working, however, within my bottom lines, and the natures of my wife and I, it would be a simple matter to translate the ritual “money” payments into what I see as “Pain Payments.” Working together, we would develop a regular series of punishments I would have to undergo on — let’s say — a weekly basis. It might start with 10 strokes with a cane; 10 with a flogger; 10 oz. weights on nipple clamps; a lb. of weight on my spiked testicle parachute. These numbers would be increased incrementally week after week.
The important thing would be that these punishments be a. truly painful b. something that works for my wife c. escalating d. mandatory. This punishment be the equivalent of a costly blackmail payment. Something that is “felt,” but that is survivable.
Translating the Payment/Consequence Fetish into the Marital Context
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