Lady Julia’s guy is one lucky fellow. I’m sure he knows that.
Many women are spooked by the idea of being dominant because of the negative stereotypes. And some men spook them by being too focued on the fetish and not the the individual. Equally true with casual play partners as well as wives and girlfriends.
Obviously as a Domme I hold some fascination with kinky play, but I think a bit of kink can spice up any relationship as long as limits are respected and as long as the fascination with the kink doesn’t overshadow the individual in the relationship. To me, when the kink turns you on more than the woman you’re with, that’s too much focus on the kink. She needs to be the center and the kink just a tool used to enhance the excitement you both feel for one another.
but baby I wouldn’t let anybody piss on me! and I’ve only jacked in front of a very few girls because I get so embarrassed you know you’re special! You know I always do whatever you want and I can always hold my mud!