The titles and labels we often use in power exchange relationships are abstract and static. Real people are dynamic. Lenora writes:
1. Being happy with the fact that we are where we must be right now.
2. Understanding that temporary sidetracks and missteps are just that, temporary.
3. Realizing that the Dominant and the submissive won’t always be at the same state of acceptance of the current place they find themselves.
… And that “real Domme” incorporates all the perceived hesitancy, the watching, waiting, and wanting . . . along with everything else that makes Her, Her. That makes us all what we are.
Read Where You Are Is Where You Belong (For Now)