I was searching for another topic when I came across this advice from Laura Goodwin:
First: know what the heck it is you want them to do. If you are not
sure if you like a thing, then just explain to the slave that you are
experimenting and are not sure if it will work. This is more advanced
BTW. The first thing you should do is teach you slave something simple
they can do that is guaranteed to work! If you know you like
penetration then teach him or her how you like that done, and don’t let
up on them until they get it right. Then praise and reward.Start by trying to simply teach the person. If that person can’t
concentrate or obey, then stop everything and concentrate all your
attention on disciplining the person. Whatever you do to accomplish
this, it should be just enough to shock them into listening well to you,
without being so much that you anger or frighten the person.If you have a real masochist on your hands you may have to break them
down and tire them out before you can begin the sex training, because
that’s what calms their minds and puts them in the mood. Don’t think of
it as rewarding them: think of it as preparing them for training. The
dough has to be kneaded before it’s allowed to rise, right? It’s
nothing more or less than that.
Originally posted 2007-03-04 12:00:35.
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This is an excelent article. i have read it over and over