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Acquiring or Creating a Fetish
The induction of fetishistic appetites is a thread on Fetish Lore. Here is my own contribution:
Some specific desires are formed when we are very, very young. I can elucidate some of them to a limited degree. I can relate them to early experiences even though I cannot really say why they gained erotic ascendancy. Being whipped is the primary example for me.
I’ve acquired certain fetishes from reading about them. E.g., testicle weighting. First time I read about that I was terribly squicked (of course they were hanging the most ridiculous things: irons and the like). About a year later it clicked.
Chastity seemed simply stupid when I first encountered it. Again, the presentation dictated much of that response. Much, much later I could connect it to my generalized desire to feel needy.
In certain cases specialized acts click into place within the framework of my overall sexual nature. They become additional means for fulfilling them.
Boot licking acquired huge power because of how it would please my partner. This is the ideal feedback mechanism between two people who are deeply involved.
The real whys and wherefores may emerge when brain chemistry is adequately mapped.
The whole thread: Induced Fetish
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