Prose
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Testicle Torments
Madame Cane on tormenting a man’s most vulnerable bodypart:
Using my first and second finger, flicking his balls from all angles. Kicking is probably the most fun for me. Ballbusting can be done with or without shoes, and wearing shoes can definitely reinforce my authority, but I personally enjoy ballbusting barefoot the most. To me it is more of an intimate act with skin to skin contact. Also, I can better control pressure barefoot, building up from light, pleasant bumping to grimace inducing impacts. His upper body jerks forward, and the sounds that are forced from him make me smile.
How to Find Male Slaves
Mistress Evita outlines the procedure by which she searches for new slaves. The basic routine:
- An initial email to request the first application form.
- The first application form
- The second application form
- Phone call(s)
- Meeting
She feels this has worked well for her but with the caveat that it is very time-consuming.
Chastity as Intimacy
Many men claim to want to be permanently denied physical sexual release. They will probably find reading Strictly Female, the blog from which this is excerpted:
As far as denying him orgasms, since I don’t allow him to masturbate in our marriage, then his orgasms have to happen when we are together, as it should be in any relationship. Except, unfortunately for him, I don’t believe at all in allowing men to cum. I believe relationships are much better for a lot of reasons when the man is made to remain chaste and is not allowed to cum. I believe that chastity makes for a strong close relationship …
Modify Me
One of the weirder comments left on one of my blogs of late:
seeking Domme to modify me as a helpless puppy cock slut. no arms and legs below the elbows and knees and a face like a sex doll and super massive tits and in no way able to go back to my old life.
i want to be renamed slut and forced to have no memories of my past and only thoughts of pleasure.
A Carefully Planned Scene
I can’t help but admire anyone - not just a dominant woman - with the creativity and energy of Mz Carmen:
It required on my part, preparation (eg: looking a Chinese water torture device) getting the right uniforms for all involved, discussions with her, her Master and Amo and basically test driving the device to see if it would work at all. (Yeah that meant me under the drip mechnaism to see how long it would take me to finally want out) To interrogation methods research. As you can see a lot of work and mentally energy was put into that scene in order to have it work the way I wanted it to.
I know some people want everything to be spontaneous but some events can’t be achieved that way. And the experience and memories are surely worth the effort.
The well planned scene vs spur of the moment.
Cost & Meaning of Professional Domination
Mistress Medusa is a young woman exploring a career as a professional dominatrix:
… let’s say your Mistress cuts you a deal and does $500 for two hours (this is about an average rate)… minus the $200 for dungeon rental, out of that remaining $300… there’s the money she spent on the elaborate outfit she’s wearing ($400 corset, $200 vinyl pants, $150 for boots), then there’s the toy bag full of instruments often costing hundereds of dollars each. Then the working hours answering emails, promoting, advertising (equivalent to a full admin position), $200 a month for private health insurance, etc … even if she does a two hour session 5 times a week… she’s still not rolling in the dough.
This is a job you have to love to be good at.
The sticker price attracts a lot of Women who haven’t done their research and they go as quickly as they come.
I don’t want to be one of those Dommes.
Whatever a latex fetish means to my client, the chance to fully exercise my sadism and make a living at it is something you have to do out of love for it.
Slave for Pay
Most professional submissves are female. Here’s an excerpt from an entry by Axe where he tells of the woman who offered to pay him to be her slave:
I would be required to be available to her at all times. If she called me in the middle of something I would need to stop everything to leave and be available to her.
I would not have any limits and I would be required to wear a chastity device at all times.